Tuesday, August 19, 2008

This is why they tell you to arrive two hours early

If you had any impression that I was a fairly competent individual this should destroy the illusion.

We went to Utah last week for a little family reunion of sorts with Phil's family. We had a great time, thank you Dennis and Debi. Phil flew home on Sunday, I stayed for a couple of extra days with the boys. So today was the big day, the flight back to el DF just me and the boys. I was very nervous.

I checked last night on my flight, scheduled to leave at 9:30 from SLC. I thought it was supposed to leave at 11am so that threw me a little. Meant a much earlier start than I'd planned. This morning I decided to pack breakfast for N and buy something at the airport for S and I, since we had to leave at 6:45 We were on the road by 6:52 and I was feeling rather smug. At about 6:57 we ran out of gas on 800 N in Orem. I started to try to push the car into the center lanes (blocked to traffic because of construction). Two UDOT employees saw me and helped push me off the main street, then gave me (and the boys) a ride to the Maverick a block or so away in their truck. I didn’t even have to find out if they had a gas tank for sale, since there was another UDOT truck at Maverick that had a gas tank, which they loaned me. It was enough to get me over to the gas station. Thank you UDOT guys on 8th North!

I’d gassed up and was back on the road by 7:20, and figuring, okay, if I can get to the airport by 8am, I should still have time to return the rental and get checked in by 8:35, my deadline, since you have to be checked in for an international flight one hour before departure. Then I missed the 215 off ramp from I15. I’ll admit at this point I swore. Luckily S didn’t pick up on that. I ended up turning around since traffic started to slow down at that point. I think it was the right call. I made it to the airport right at 8am. Then came the part I’d been worried about: moving from the parking lot to the counter. Me. One four year old. One 10 month old. One large rolling suitcase. One smaller rolling suitcase. One booster seat. One infant seat (yeah we totally cheat and are still using an infant seat). Plus the carry-ons. Luckily Rebekah had sold me her umbrella stroller last night. I loaded that thing up, which meant holding it up, but hey at least I wasn’t carrying it all. Thank you Rebekah.

At the elevators a businessman type took one look at me trying to maneuver, and insisted on helping me get to the counter. I didn’t take much convincing. On the way he explained that when his children were young, they’d lived in Thailand (I think that’s what he said) and his wife had flown home with their four kids on her own. Thank you business man in terminal 2, SLC, and his superwoman wife for convincing him it’s hard to do.

I tried to convince the Delta line lady that she should let me use the first class line, she wasn’t going for it. But I was doing okay on time, 8:15ish, we’re in line, and it’s not too long. Feeling rather smug. But then the woman at the counter couldn’t find my reservation. Are you confirmed? Um… I thought so. 8:27, “I’m really sorry, I don’t know what to tell you, I can’t find your reservation anywhere.” I had no proof; Phil hadn’t forwarded the confirmation number to me. We’d asked the travel agents in his office to line up a split ticket; we flew there on AA and were returning on Delta, because they have a direct flight a couple of times a week. I didn’t have our original boarding passes. We were stuck.

Okay. What next? I got some change from the agent and headed for the pay phone (we disconnected my US cell phone). Put in all my quarters and got four minutes. I called Phil’s office, asked to speak with the travel people, and quick! I got the guy who’d booked our tickets and gave him my payphone number. I explained the situation. Turns out I had been booked on a flight on 8/17. I had to ask when that was. Sunday, day before yesterday, the day Phil left. He said, “I can get you on this flight…” Then I heard, “Deposit $.25 for…” I got one more exchange in, “How soon?” “Give me five minutes and recheck in.” Great. 8:32

Back to the counter. We just walked up to the same agent. Sorry people in line. By this point N is crying, S is whining. Remember the no breakfast decision? It was showing. The agent asks some more questions, finds our reservation, and says, “I don’t think I’m going to have time to take care of everything, would you just like me to rebook you for another day?” Can we at least try? She tries. The computer lets her do it. We have boarding passes in hand. Another agent walks us to the front of the security line, which wasn’t really necessary, but hey, I wasn’t going to turn that down. Thank you Eric in travel in Dallas. Thank you persistent Delta agents.

Thank you woman behind us going through security, for the sucker you gave crying S. He was really sad that he wasn’t going to be able to play with the Lego helicopter he’d discovered at his cousins. Fine, but really, do you have to cry about it now? Thank you guy that rushed over to help unfold the stroller after I pulled it off the conveyor belt.

After that it all seemed easy. I was nervous about this? All I have to do is sit here? The flight was even empty. Though I was a little annoyed with the Mexican family who spread out ALL around us, but then kept yelling to each other and to the nanny they were traveling with. They managed to wake both my boys up at points in the flight.

And then we were home. I was only near tears once.

16 comments:

Nana said...

Kathryn, I can't believe it!!! At 10:45 this morn, I said to Mindy, "Do you think Kathryn is getting on the plane about now?" Little did I know! I'm glad that you ARE so competent/capable.
I am trying not to be nervous about our flights out next week!

turleybenson said...

Wow. That's what they call a hairy morning. I can't believe you made it! Brave lady.

Makes me think about how when my parents lived in Mexico (before my time) and my mom would take 5 kids on the bus to run errands and stuff. Moms are amazing. I'm not sure I fit the bill...

Brenny said...

You only swore once and only 'nearly' cried throughout the entire experience? I'd call that a success. You rock.

Alicia said...

You are a stronger women than I am! Only swore once, that's impressive.

ghd3 said...

ugh. glad you made it. traveling alone can sometimes be nerve-wracking, let alone doing it with 2 little ones in tow. Kathleen always bears the brunt of it, but I admit that whenever I see someone traveling alone with kiddos, I always try to help if I can.

Jaclyn said...

That sounds absolutely awful!! I would've lost it. It's never the flight that's hard, but simply getting on board with 2 kids, 2 carseats, etc. I've done it alone twice since Charlott'e been born and I have sworn I will NEVER do it again. For some reason, however, I always do because I always think next time will be better.

Did I ever tell you about the time Anna and I left the Vegas airport strapped to a gurney with blood all over us? Followed by 10 stitches and 23 hours of waiting standby afterwards? That's my personal favorite.

Molly said...

Kathryn-
You are a brave, brave woman for traveling with 2 kids by yourself. I'm pretty sure I would have been in tears multiple times that morning. Congrats on actually getting on a flight that morning and keeping it together!

Mary said...

Holy Cows!

noelle said...

that hurt to read... :) you're so good. i would've been bawling, kicking things and swearing up a storm.

erin said...

mkay, so i had to read this after our conversation yesterday. murphy's law is truly a beotch, and if i had been in your shoes i would have surely filled my cussing quota for 2008. you are the woman kathryn.

Marinda said...

Hi Kathryn, you ARE brave!! Ok, I don't know who all your friends are, but I'm interested in knowing more about Jaclyn's experience at the Vegas airport. It sounded, I don't want to say "funny", how about "intriguing" and I'd like to know more!!

We are a part of a happy family said...

come on...you needed another element like, N threw up or S needed to go to the bathroom right before you got to the front of the line. glad you're home but only wished you did have a layover in big d.

Alexis said...

This only proves what I've always thought about you-you really do have it together, even when it's tough. I would have lost it at running out of gas and pushing my car down the middle of the street with two kids. Which is a secret, terrible fear of mine. I'm glad that you're safe, and have such a great story to tell.

Kathryn said...

Jaclyn, my favorite part of that story is Ben taking off his shirt to stop the bleeding. Want to fill Marinda in on the rest?

Kathryn said...

Oh and Rachel, I think what I was missing was a leaky dirty diaper right in the middle of it all.

Keri said...

I think you're the superwoman. Very impressive.